i feel like a svengali.. !
i stumbled upon a podcast on vulturo.com. Now as amusing and entertaining as the podcast was i couldn't help but ponder over a few things they were talking about. Of course put three guys together they have to talk about chicks. so the words "getting lucky" came up quite a bit. and they went on to talk about how they get intimidated by pretty women, so much so that even the smell of their perfume is intimidating. Well it's not just these guys, this thinking prevails among a large population of guys. why is this ??
Why is sex getting lucky ? it's not getting lucky for women, for them it's a choice. and it's not coz we men are desperate for sex who can't do without it. Women love sex More than men. then why are guys the ones getting "lucky". Ask a woman what they want in a man. It's the same old story. good looks, sense of humor, intelligence and sometimes a fat wallet but i can bet my bottom dollar on the fact that most women will let go of the last criteria for a combination of the first 3. so what's so tuff guys ? it's never too late to install new qualities in you. even if you are ugly as a fuck there are ways to make your appearance presentable.
and what's the whole intimidation ? there's only one way to get over it. Go out and talk to hot women. talk to them in clubs. supermarkets, bookstores. Just start up a conversation even if it's too ask .. "where's the sci-fi books section ? " Ok wait that's not a good line, unless she wears her hair like princess leia !! so talk to hot women, first few times maybe you will make a fool of yourself. so what ? think of it as net practise ! And never wait more than ten seconds to say hi/hello/good morning/shall we fuck, or whatever your choice of words is.
second make friends with hot women. Women always love to help/improve guys. Take her advice on how to improve your appearance, let her advice you on shopping etc. but never ever ever ever take a woman's advice on relationships. use them for what they are good for and of course make genuine friends with them (unless they are bitchy). Use your hot friend as a pivot to get more hot girlfriends (or a girlfriend if you are one of those guys).
and the perfume thing, i have heard that a lot for some reason from guys. there's only one way. Wear a nice perfume yourself. Save up money go buy a nice perfume and i don't mean that Old Brut or Old spice (tho i love old spice). spend some money. women love men who smell good. these small things which are in your control will go a long way in getting you laid (or find your soul mate whatever).
I hear from my female friends all tha time that there's a dearth of good men around. It's high time all the guys turned themselves over into "good men". There i end up writing about this yet again !!! I swear i could write ten more pages about this. i hope it makes sense/helps somebody !
Why is sex getting lucky ? it's not getting lucky for women, for them it's a choice. and it's not coz we men are desperate for sex who can't do without it. Women love sex More than men. then why are guys the ones getting "lucky". Ask a woman what they want in a man. It's the same old story. good looks, sense of humor, intelligence and sometimes a fat wallet but i can bet my bottom dollar on the fact that most women will let go of the last criteria for a combination of the first 3. so what's so tuff guys ? it's never too late to install new qualities in you. even if you are ugly as a fuck there are ways to make your appearance presentable.
and what's the whole intimidation ? there's only one way to get over it. Go out and talk to hot women. talk to them in clubs. supermarkets, bookstores. Just start up a conversation even if it's too ask .. "where's the sci-fi books section ? " Ok wait that's not a good line, unless she wears her hair like princess leia !! so talk to hot women, first few times maybe you will make a fool of yourself. so what ? think of it as net practise ! And never wait more than ten seconds to say hi/hello/good morning/shall we fuck, or whatever your choice of words is.
second make friends with hot women. Women always love to help/improve guys. Take her advice on how to improve your appearance, let her advice you on shopping etc. but never ever ever ever take a woman's advice on relationships. use them for what they are good for and of course make genuine friends with them (unless they are bitchy). Use your hot friend as a pivot to get more hot girlfriends (or a girlfriend if you are one of those guys).
and the perfume thing, i have heard that a lot for some reason from guys. there's only one way. Wear a nice perfume yourself. Save up money go buy a nice perfume and i don't mean that Old Brut or Old spice (tho i love old spice). spend some money. women love men who smell good. these small things which are in your control will go a long way in getting you laid (or find your soul mate whatever).
I hear from my female friends all tha time that there's a dearth of good men around. It's high time all the guys turned themselves over into "good men". There i end up writing about this yet again !!! I swear i could write ten more pages about this. i hope it makes sense/helps somebody !
7 comments:
Catalaogue advise to self.
Catalogue advise to self.
hey, whats with the altruism. isnt it a good thing.. that there's a dearth of good men around? :P
tnx but talking to a woman in a superstore can lead you to be interpreted as enraging the modesty according to the new amendment in the law!
anonymous, say the same words, without the veil on the face ! :)
big eyed, It is and it isnt always.. ! just doing my bit for the fellow men ! :)
burf, driving thru a red light can be interpreted as a traffic offense but we still do it dont we ? and "enraging the modesty ??" ... dude i talk to chicks all the time in pubs/stores/bookshops/airport/restaraunt/salon/trains/newspaper stand/take away/coffe shop..... u get the idea right ?
good advice, logical and makes sense...
sad thing is that for a very large number of guys who are genuinely "good men" as girls put it, its not an option and the practice you spoke of is rejection enough to crush their self confidence to begin with. Now you know the problem.
To make it worse, most of the time, the guys that do go and chat up the ladies are pervy and lech types and so the girls are less likely to react positively when a geniune nice guy makes a move since its not always easy to tell one from t'other on first contact.
Cho Chweet, what a cute post from the man. Almost like you think you're blessed with all this knowledge & feeling all benevolent!
"make friends with hot women" - is this why we're friends? ;)
"women love men who smell good" - yeah baby. And did I tell you, I love Old Spice too :D
hmmmmmmmmm
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