feel no shame coz time's no chain..

In one of the comments some guy said something along the lines of "in this part of the world 99.99% girls would not talk to you". OK dude !! 99.99% ?? that's sheer over exaggeration !

Maybe it's not the girls. Maybe it's the way you approach them ? If you look needy/nervous/threatening why would any girl talk to you ? if you stare at her from the other end of the coffee shop for 40 mins before you actually walk up to her ..that's not any good now is it ?

OK leave all these factors apart. why should a pretty / cute / hot girl sitting in a coffee shop/library/grocery store talk to a strange guy who walks up to her ??? Ask yourself this.

a) coz he is cute/hot/gorgeous

b) coz he just walked out of a BMW 7 series and his thick fat wallet fell outta his pocket displaying his 8 platinum cards and huge fat wad of currency notes

c) he has a very very cute baby in his arms and a 3 yr old girl with curly hair sitting on his shoulders singing the woodchuck song

d) he smiles a lot, the friends around him are laffing a lot and he seems charming and cool and very nice !

First three are probably outta the direct influence of most guys but what about point D. Look at it this way. chicks go to hairdressers, they spend a lot on looking good. They spend a lot of time being nice. they are smarter than men. All in all apart from the emotions they put in into a relationship they put in a lot in terms of looking good and being considerate and nice to your friends etc.

what do you put in as a man ? unshaven balls ? hair outta nose ? untrimmed stubble unkempt hair wearing that torn pair of jockeys you bought in 1997 ? beer belly ? and those ridiculous burps you are so proud of ? and those unfunny jokes and that needy "i am a carpet" your-self ? and watching ESPN all day long ? and don't even start me about how 'romantic' most men i know are. All in all why should a nice hot girl be with you ?

OK see the deal is when we are kids, little babies, we don't know how to read or write or swim or talk or how not to pee in public. but as we grow up we gradually learn these things. we learn how to read tough words, we learn how to start a blog and how to drive gear shift. But what most of us men don't learn is how to be cool and charming and nice and how to get women. !! it's an art and practise makes perfect. You will have to crash and you will have to burn and you will have to do time if you wanna get a nice pretty amazingly awesome girl that you wanted. If you wanna sit in your pj's at 1 am in the night commenting on my blog that 99.99% women won't talk to you and askin me for my suggestions then listen !! i ain't doctor love or shit. I am just scribbling what i learned from my experiences. you can sit on your sofa and say a thousand things but it's only when you move out and try this shit will you realise your true potential or the immense lack of it. anything that one person can do can be replicated with equal success by another one. Oh and yeah , Always hold eye contact. when she looks at you hold eye contact. When you are checking her out and she meets your eyes keep looking and smile. Don't look away EVER !!